National Directory for the formation, ministry and live of permanent deacons in the United States.
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The committee on admission and scrutinies interviews the candidate to ascertain his knowledge of the Order of Deacons to be received and its obligations and rights; his understanding and willingness, if single or widowed, to accept the Church’s discipline regarding perpetual celibate chastity; his understanding and willingness, if married, to embrace the magisterial teaching on marriage and sexuality, as well as its ecclesiastical discipline in widowhood
Le comité d'admission et scrutins interviewe le candidat pour s'assurer de sa connaissance de l'ordre du diaconat qu'il va recevoir, et de ses obligations et droits; sa compréhension et sa volonté,
si célibataire ou veuf, d'accepter la discipline de l'Eglise concernant la chasteté perpétuelle du célibat...
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To communicate and share his ministry, prayer, and formation with wife and family; to demonstrate marital chastity in conformity to the magisterial teaching on marriage and sexuality
Cordialement
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